The Full Moon occurs during the early hours of February 9th in fiery Leo. This beautiful moon creates the perfect energy for healing any trauma caused by painful relationships. Perfect Segway into our theme this month, getting clarity in love. Love is an energy that flows to and from us and understanding how that works is a gift that keeps on giving.
We offer a two-step Full Moon ritual.
Step one in this ritual is about removing things from our lives that interfere with our healthy expression of love. You will need the Motor City Hoo Doo Road Opener candle.
Make a list of all the known ways you sabotage your relationships by believing you are the victim, or you are more right or better than others. Light this candle and concentrate on removing the things you do that smack of self-centeredness, ego, and pride. Take your time. This is deep reflective work and you are opening your heart to the hard truths you’ve been avoiding. Let the flame consume all the tangles, misunderstandings, blame and shame found in relationships founded in codependency, abuse, and arrogance. You are clearing your mind as well. There are things you believed to be true because of your perspective of the situation and of yourself.
Take a deep cleansing breath as you feel the release.
Step two
That last step took a fair amount of effort and energy. In this next step, you will renew yourself with the divine qualities that are inherent in you and in everyone. These are compromise, humility and compassion. You will need the Blessed Herbal Energy and Will candle. Light the candle and go into meditation. See the beautiful orange light from the candle fill you. Let it fill all your chakras, especially your sacral chakra. The orange light brings you strength of will, and joy and enthusiasm for life. Feel this light energize your emotions. Now, bring these feelings into your heart. Let compassion for yourself grow. This means you recognize that you are loved, even when the people in your world are not showing you understanding or kindness. Sit with that for a while.
Now allow yourself to recognize that others are loved, even when you are upset with them and don’t feel they deserve your forgiveness or kindness. Next, allow humility to grow in your awareness as you realize, you don’t know everything. You only know what you are experiencing at the moment or remembering what you experienced in the past. Admit that you have allowed yourself to be influenced by what you made that mean to you and about others. Allow the orange light from the candle to uplift your thoughts, judgments, and beliefs and reveal some truth you didn’t see before. In your meditation, be open to what compromises are possible for you in your relationships. Now ask to be filled with love and be happy that you did something very loving for yourself. The more you are filled with love the more you can give.
After your candle ritual, write down what you learned and see how it can be applied in your relationships with others and with yourself.
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